option A or B

The tribe members went out yesterday (me, J and A). Me wanted to buy furniture and curtain, J was just accompanying me and A wanted to buy gift for her boss to mark her one year anniversary working under him...sigh... (we did tell her such category of anniversary does not exist). Anyway, we spent more time buying a blouse for herself than finding the gift for her boss. anyway as we were walking and talking she asked us a question. Between

Option A: being with someone whom you dont want to be with
and
Option B: liking someone who you cant have

which would you rather have?

J and I immediately answered option B, without even having to think about it. Then we said, option B is something we have done, survived and might do again but option A will be worst...funny isnt it...our priorities is so clear, we want to be with someone we love and if we cant have that, just loving that person is enough, we don't need anything more than that and the most important thing is that we will not settle for anything less.

my many battles in life...

I wont say that I have the most colorful life on the planet but as a person living on this earth, I have had many battles in my life. It is not easy going through all these battles but I have gone through them one at a time. But sometimes or may be many times I have really wished that life was easier for me. Am I asking for too much? I really wish I know. Sometimes I wonder if I am really bad at doing things always becomes complicated for me...Am I that incapable of handling life?