First guy, someone I hardly know, I went for dinner with this guy, we didn't spend much time over dinner and since he insisted that he wants to spend more time with me I suggested that we go for a walk or drink somewhere. First he said ok, but after talking for a while he said he was tired and wanted to go back to his hotel. Since he was out of town and I picked him up for dinner, I told him I will drop him back at his hotel and I did just that. Before he got down he asked if I want to go up to his room, I declined obviously, I mean I hardly know this guy. So he started explaining that there is nothing wrong going to his room bla bla bla... and he explained many times that he just want to talk and nothing more than that and there is no difference if we were talking over a drink or in his room. Well I told him I agree to what he says but I just choose not to go and I am not going to be apologetic for being me...so he left...before which he said, it is all in your mind...
The second guy, he is like my 'bestest' friend. Sometimes I am so glad I found him. I called him to tell him about my dinner with the first guy and after a while started talking about other things (as usual). Anyway, I was telling him that I don't wear short skirt coz I don't think i have beautiful legs, he burst out laughing and said " well, it is all in your mind"... :)